{"id":6780,"date":"2023-05-30T16:01:25","date_gmt":"2023-05-30T16:01:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mind-tree-coaching.lu\/?p=6780"},"modified":"2026-08-25T15:19:27","modified_gmt":"2026-08-25T13:19:27","slug":"more-time-and-more-equity-my-personal-experience-with-the-fair-play-method","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mind-tree-coaching.lu\/pt\/more-time-and-more-equity-my-personal-experience-with-the-fair-play-method\/","title":{"rendered":"A minha experi\u00eancia pessoal com o M\u00e9todo Fair Play"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Fui criado por um pai trabalhador. Cresci a ver o meu pai a fazer as tarefas dom\u00e9sticas, a cozinhar, a trabalhar em dois empregos e a tratar de tudo o que estava relacionado com n\u00f3s, os filhos. Tendo sido exposto a este modelo maravilhoso, muitos estere\u00f3tipos de g\u00e9nero e preconceitos sobre a divis\u00e3o do trabalho baseada no g\u00e9nero ficaram fora do meu campo de vis\u00e3o.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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Era natural na minha casa que o meu pai, o meu irm\u00e3o e eu partilh\u00e1ssemos as tarefas dom\u00e9sticas, e n\u00e3o havia trabalho invis\u00edvel \u2013 todos t\u00ednhamos consci\u00eancia do que precisava de ser feito e, mesmo que tiv\u00e9ssemos algumas tarefas atribu\u00eddas a cada um, trat\u00e1vamos de tudo de forma proativa.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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O facto de o trabalho dom\u00e9stico ser maioritariamente invis\u00edvel na maioria dos agregados familiares mais tradicionais continuar a ser o que mais me confunde no meu coaching do Fair Play.<\/strong> Causa-me perplexidade que as pessoas sequer vejam tudo o que \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio para manter uma casa a funcionar \u2014 essa \u00e9 uma enorme falha de percep\u00e7\u00e3o com que muita gente anda por a\u00ed!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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  • \n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tQuando chegou o momento de eu e o meu parceiro criarmos a nossa pr\u00f3pria fam\u00edlia, fal\u00e1mos muito sobre as nossas origens, as nossas experi\u00eancias de vida dom\u00e9stica e os modelos pelos quais fomos criados. Fizemos o trabalho consciente e intencional de comunicar, definir padr\u00f5es, discutir responsabilidades e distribuir tarefas. Para n\u00f3s, \u00e9 uma express\u00e3o do nosso respeito, amor e cuidado um pelo outro e pela nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/ul>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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    Tivemos 3 filhos no espa\u00e7o de 3 anos. Sim, isso significa que o terceiro nasceu antes de o primeiro fazer 3 anos de idade. Ambos dorm\u00edamos noites de 6 horas durante todo esse tempo. Partilh\u00e1mos, organiz\u00e1mos, planej\u00e1mos e adapt\u00e1mo-nos e todos benefici\u00e1mos de uma experi\u00eancia parental bonita e gratificante.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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    • \n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tQuando descobri o M\u00e9todo Fair Play, fez tanto sentido para mim! Era t\u00e3o semelhante ao que t\u00ednhamos feito espontaneamente! Adoro que traga uma estrutura semelhante a um jogo, com as cartas, e que seja baseado em princ\u00edpios organizacionais que a maioria de n\u00f3s j\u00e1 utiliza diariamente no seu trabalho. Adoro que traga para cima da mesa uma linguagem comum que n\u00e3o \u00e9 agressiva e que inibe atitudes defensivas, ao colocar o foco no que \u00e9 realmente importante \u2013 os nossos valores, talentos e a alegria de partilhar um projeto de vida. E devolve a cada um o tempo e a paz de esp\u00edrito! <\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/ul>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

      I was raised by a working dad. I grew up seeing my father do the chores, the cooking, work two jobs and take care of everything related to us children. Having been exposed to this wonderful role model, a lot of gender stereotypes and preconceptions of gendered divisions of labour were on my blind spot.\u00a0 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[42],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6780","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog"],"yoast_head":"\nMy personal experience with the Fair Play Method - Mind Tree Coaching<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"It\u2019s not always easy to change habits and implement new systems. 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